dino48 wrote:

Did I see something here about homade cookies?  life is not fair,Grrrrrrrrrr!!!!!!!

smile  Well, last year when heading to PA - I brought cookies.  I had thought they wouldn't actually go over well, however were completely gone by the time we left.  I'm not sure yet if I'll be firing up the oven to bake a few batches or not.  It's been sooooo hot!  BUT, it's possible!  Of course, if it's going to be crazy hot it may not be a good idea anyway.  Melting cookies in the heat get too messy. 

There WILL be smoked BBQ pork butt, corn on the cob (bread & butter sweet NY corn), best potato salad in the world, and... I'm not sure all what else.  I've gotta go get my shopping done this week!

Speaking a a WEEK...

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Roger Guppy wrote:

I have no idea what this is about Ads!! I never see any on mine, but I protect my laptop so, as far as I am concerned, anyone seeing ads need to look at their own set up and not blame Chordie that does not have a problem.

Roger

I agree. 

You know, as far as Chordie goes, there are only a few ads placed in a few places.  Up top under the main navigation, and along the sides.  That's it.  If you are getting ad's covering pages or popping up randomly - it's not Chordie doing it.  You may have a virus.  If you need help with your computer, there's lots of folks here that will be happy to help with that too.  It's best not to hop on and blame the site that has people willing to listen and help.  Seriously - now a days there's ads on EVERY website.  If they're obnoxious, then it's not the site. 

Anywho - Quaz - I think it's good you came back. Usually when people make their first post a complaint, they don't.  So, as others have said, please let us know what it is you're having issues with - more specifically - and we'll be more than happy to help.  smile  Irish - same thing.  Give us some specifics as to what your issue is, and we'll help.  There's really not any more ads on Chordie than there were on the old version of the site, so I'm really confused about the complaints there.

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Hope it's a good one, Phill!

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I agree on the whole strings thing.  I don't do bends or anything fancy like that.  I'm very simple, but I agree, .11's are too thin sounding.  When I don't use a pick, I'm strumming mostly with the side of my thumb (fleshy part, not the nail) and the tips of my nails (the back, where the nail polish goes).  I just wanted to clarify that, I DO know what you're talking about! smile  Of course finger picking is primarily with the nail or finger tip - depending on the sound I'm looking for.  I think if my nails were short on my right hand, it would be far more difficult to play and NOT hit the tops of the fingers "near the cuticle" area.

I find cutting the nails opposed to filing them tends to allow the nails to grow stronger.  But, I don't have wonderful nails either.  I do prefer a fine pro file to an emery board (no sand paper for me).  Those tend to tear the end of the nail up and just cause cracking, splitting, flaking.  Fiberglass nail wraps are great!  Ridge filler is great!  ALSO great, prenatal vitamins.  Man my nails were so beautiful when I was taking those.  big_smile  The old wives tale about making nails stronger had to do with gelatin.  But I think that one's not true.

Hey quazz, welcome to the Chordie forums!  Um, and goodbye too I guess.  Sorry you don't like things now.  Change happens, and this site is actually quite improved.  Search works better than ever, the site isn't crashing anymore, and since this is a free website ads are a necessity.  Members don't pay a dime.  It's the advertisements that keep this website free to use, because keeping a website online actually costs money. Also, Chordie.com is not affiliated with any mobile app.  I hope you've written to the app makers too, to let them know that you're upset that their software doesn't work with this website the way you want it to.  Then again, without giving constructive feedback and suggestions and specifics about exactly what the problem is, and asking how the problem may possibly be resolved ... I doubt they will be able to help you any more than we can here.

OH - Roger and TIGLJK - when you've decided, you can either post your song of choice in this thread, or send me an email with the song choice and I'll get the new thread for August started!  smile

Congrats Roger and TIGLJK!

I know it's going to be SUPER difficult for Roger to knock out a good idea for a song.  Heaven knows, when one door shuts another opens. Hopefully he can come up with SOMETHING!  wink

Jim - I'm super excited to find out what song you'll pick!  I just hope you find time to get in there to do so.  I know you had said that you'd be out of town in August, but I'm not sure when your trip started or starts, and if you've got internet!  If he doesn't get back in - I guess we'll just have a second song delayed. That is of course, if Roger can come up with a first song.  ha ha ha

Jandle's heading out until August 6th... but that's ok.  She can keep the forums buzzing when she comes back, as there'll be a few of us busy that very same weekend!  ha ha!

Ditto Rogers Sentiment!

Excellent job Joe and Jan (and crew).  smile  How nice to get a few others to join in with you Jan!!!

Joe as always, your playing is infectious.  It makes me want to grab my guitar and play along.  You're a true entertainer all the way around.  (I hope there was a pick in your hand.  If not, I can see why your poor finger tops are in so much pain!)

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AWESOME!  You and the boys are some lucky ducks!  smile  I'll admit, I'm jealous.

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Quick nail anatomy lesson! 

The area of living skin around the top of the nail often referred to (improperly) as the cuticle area is actually called the Eponychium - also referred to as the "nail fold".  The cuticle is actually a very thin layer of dead skin on top of the nail that is often scraped and removed during a manicure (it should only be partially removed, not completely removed).  The eponychium along with the cuticle help to seal the nail from bacteria.  The area under this and below the nail (where you can see a white crescent) is where the nail is actually formed and is called the matrix.  Should the matrix become too damaged, the nail will no longer form. 

It's not good to damage the eponychium.  It's an area highly prone to swelling up like a balloon - rushing white cells to the area -  to help prevent bacteria from entering the nail bed and permanently damaging the matrix. You know, like... you get a scratch anywhere and - no biggie - but you get a scratch right along your eyelid and all heck breaks loose!  Natural defenses and all.  Be careful there. 

I don't know if you'd build up callouses there or not, I kind of think not though.  Possible infection in that area would cause a lot more pain and possible trouble down the road.  If you're playing that rough, you're scraping off small layers from the top of the nail too.  Eventually this could cause brittle nails, splitting, flaking, etc - making it difficult to grow the nails long enough and keep them there for finger picking.  I think - if you're doing a lot of strumming and hitting the strings with the tops of the nails - it might be a good idea to plop on a protective layer (Look for a nail ridge filler - it's generally fairly clear and matte). 

If you do opt for a Fire Engine Red topcoat lacquer, you'll be able to see very quickly how much damage is being done to the top of the nail as the polish gets scraped and scoffed off.  I try to limit myself to just a few songs that I strum without a pick, for the health of my nails (and rarely wear polish because it doesn't look good at all after an evening of  guitar playing). 

Interesting fact: It takes about 6 months for the body to repair the typical damage done by one poor nail service (ie, acrylic nail surface preparation generally includes filing the nail surface and the "cheapo" places tend to over do it.  Then women will also often peel the acrylic off once it starts to lift - taking additional nail surface layers off in the process).  These are your claws.  Protect your claws.  smile

eenie meenie miney mo... my mother told me to pick the very best one and...

JAN HAS THE HAT!  Who's name will she pull out? 

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Thank you, again, all of you! 

Ark, I do remember us discussing that once before.  It likely was around the time I wrote the other song (The Tears of Six Years - Gah... that was 7 years ago now!).  I'm so glad to hear that you were able to find the grave and get a headstone placed.  No doubt this has helped your wife's healing process.  Our daughter is buried at the foot of her grandfather's grave (my husband's father passed on many years ago, before I had the chance to meet him).  We just have that simple stepping stone that I painted as a marker, near his foot stone -  but I love it, and it's perfect.  smile

Pete, "dont worry  look at the moon and Daddy will be up there" - what a lovely thought to hold onto!

You all know what's really awesome?  No matter the beliefs - hope and love surely never die.  smile  Thanks again everyone!

Zurf wrote:

Sorry your Mom is having a tough time Jim.  Prayers for her from Virginia.

I'm out. I know I said it was unlikely for me, but I've been holding out hope because it's something I very much want to do.  However, there's no way I'm going to be able to make it this year.  I just got a new project at work and it's going to consume me through the end of August.

I was holding out hope too.  sad  Oh well.  Gotta make the money in order to spend it right?  We'll miss ya Zurf!

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smile  Well I'm glad I could be an inspiration! 

No truer words.  The 3rd rock will continue to spin despite our beliefs or existence.  Enjoy what you cam while you can.  Very well done Mojo!

Bass Viking wrote:

MKM; sorry to take so long to make any definitive decision but have been dealing with my mothers health issues as she has been undergoing chemo and radiation five days per week.  Unfortunately, as much as I would love to make the trip, it seems life is getting in the way.  I will be forced to be satisfied with recounts from all of you and video and/or audio of the good times you all will have.   Thanks for the invite; maybe some other time!  Bass Viking, aka Big Jim

Jim, I'm sorry to hear your mother is going through that.  It's so difficult to watch our parents in such a situation.  My father managed to kick cancer's butt a few years ago.  He didn't have to undergo radiation though.  That's a tough one for sure.  I can absolutely understand not wanting to go very far away from her.  We'll miss you, and raise a beer or bourbon, in your honor! 

I'm sure there will be some form of video as well as - hopefully - some audio recordings.  Last year I forgot to turn the recording volume up so all I had was barely there sound.  The live video recording quality was junky.  I'm not sure we'll live broadcast again, unless I get some serious requests for it.  wink 

UJB - wait till you see how that Rooster looks NOW! He's getting so purty!  I've only got a few, and 4 will hopefully lay some decent eggs but none yet. Jim says they'd better start soon or he's going to start eating them.  I laugh and tell him he needs to get that OKAYED with KATIE first!  Ha!  He then turns to mush of course.  Can't eat her "pets".  LOL!  My sister is bringing over an extra Silkie she has today. I think their eggs are about the size of pigeon eggs.  More pets.  LOL!

Ok - just a few weeks left!  The corn should be ready soon!  Can't wait for some fresh NY corn!  Yummmmmmmmmmm!  It's been quite dry here the past few weeks, hopefully it doesn't affect the local crops too much. So far I haven't noticed any major price changes in the local produce.  The farm stands could be a different story, but I'd rather hand them the money directly and know I'm getting the best of the best!

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Ya know, I think anyone can music and enjoy music.  Sometimes there's a need to do it "correctly" and "well" and other times it's a matter of doing it for the fun of it.  smile  Knowing how to play correctly and well certainly is a difficult point to get to, but makes the fun - down the road - more enjoyable.  It's just not always so enjoyable to start with. 

I figure someday I'll learn how to play "correctly" and "well".  smile  In the meantime, I'm having fun and enjoying it.  So just remember, Scott:  sometimes it's practice to learn how to do it correctly and well - and sometimes it NEEDS to just be FUN.  Find a balance.  Push them when they need the push, and let them just have fun when they need a break from the practice grind so they don't get too flustered and throw their hands up in the air and quit. 

When I took voice lessons, I HATED listening to the recordings of myself singing.  The whole point of it was to POINT OUT what I was doing WRONG so that I could correct it.  It worked great, but it was painful. LOL!  When I'd had enough, I'd sing my heart out to some simple songs to keep the enjoyment aspect in there.  Same with the clarinet.  Every reed squeak was pain (to everyone listening).  After enough practice, it was time to just push the envelope and try to make the squeaks sound purposeful!

It's my opinion that people don't quit because it's too difficult, they quit because the difficulty makes it no longer fun and enjoyable.  THAT is what music is about after all, right?  smile  Encourage, point out the improvement, point out when you see it getting "easier" because the muscle memory is improving, and encourage them to take breaks from practicing on perfection and just do something FUN.  Sometimes, those fun mistakes become amazing breakthroughs.  By purposefully causing a clarinet reed squeak, I learned better how to avoid it and I didn't even realize it. wink

The sorrow is deep like that of a Hearty Irish Brown Bread.  A place in your heart as hollow as the beat created when tapping on a fresh loaf. For a while this machine has kneaded not, it's service in life to simply be there to offer support to JJJ with each NGD purchase. Clearly, your son did not understand the levity of this figure. You've done the honorable thing JJJ, removing it from the recyclables, having been placed there like a heel of stale bread.  Ahh, and placing it into the scrap metal bin.  You have assured that Bread Machine will live on to see another day!

Yesterday a bread machine, silent, supportive, kneading not, yet silently wishing for more.  May Bread Machine be turned to wire and find a home reincarnated as a component in a new electric guitar!

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hee hee... we all just wanted to see you and hear you talking!  wink That was really nice of you to do the vid for her Scott.

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Thank you all very much for your kind words!  smile  This is one of those songs that's taken me so long because ... I guess it's because while it's something everyone thinks about and considers at some point, it's something that manages to consume my thoughts each time someone I love passes.  Most of the people that I have loved deeply who have passed on had lived a full life. I KNOW that I am very lucky to be able to say that. Each of my grandparents were quite ill for a while before they passed.  In a way it was a breath of fresh air to know they weren't suffering any longer.  But, ya know, is Gramps up there 88 years old and nearly blind?  Is he the dapper young man my Grandma fell in love with that I never knew?  Is he drinking Irish Whiskey and telling railroad stories?  smile  Then the other side of the coin is my daughter... still just a baby, or would I greet a teenager now? 

Anyhow - since those are my deep thoughts, and the song catches a few of them - I worry that it comes off sounding just CHEESY, whiny, selfish, or stupid to others.  So, thanks to all of you for assuring me it doesn't!  Ha!

I'm not so sure about RIGHTEOUS Bill, but I am glad to know that it was touching and clear. 

You've all managed to make me tear all up - AGAIN!  Thank you for taking the time to listen, and comment.  smile  If anyone would like to play around with it or change it, or suggest changes, please do.  I had kind of wanted another verse, but I don't quite have the knack for wordplay that some of you are so very talented with so I just went with it.  wink  I don't have this typed out anywhere yet either.  It's all henscratch on lined paper at the moment.

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Thanks for sharing these with us!  That's it, you're officially in the IN Crowd with Chordie now.  LOL!  smile  You'll have to join us in a few more threads, really great stuff Kev!

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Tricky song, because there's not a ton going on with the guitar - it's all voice, and you've got it!  Great job Kev!

Happy Birthday to the lovely Dondra!

Dino - I may have missed yours.. if so, a very happy belated birthday to you as well!

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On the car ride home last year from a family reunion, Eric Clapton's "Tears In Heaven" came on the radio, and the words for this song presented themselves.  I grabbed the pen and paper and wrote and wrote.  I've worked on it here and there since, in memory of my daughter, CJ who was stillborn (quite a few years ago now).  Over this past weekend, I lost the last of my grandparents, which spurred me to finish the song yesterday. 

For the record, I don't know what I believe.  When I consider that death may simply be the end, not a new start, I do believe that for some that simple nothingness that may be there is better than the suffering they face in the end of their lives here.  My Grandpa certainly is in a better place now, even if it's just the end of his suffering here, though I sure hope he's been reunited with Grandma. 

I do hope there's a real "Better Place" all the same.

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- yup, I finally created a soundcloud account too -

smile I was feeling sad today. Coming here and listening to all these renditions of the two songs made me smile.  smile 
REALLY GREAT JOB ALL OF YOU!  If this was a competition, I have no clue how I could possibly pick a winner! 

Roger's Down on the Corner sounds so FULL - that autoharp adds SO MUCH!  Mojo's version feels like he's RIGHT HERE at the Backyard gathering.  Graham's got the guitalele going and it brings such a unique voicing to songs!  That's only mentioning the most RECENT recordings posted!  You guys are amazing!  Thank you so much for participating and sharing your talents with us all!!!!!!!

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I recognized him right away, of course I've seen his photo before.  Also, he's quite a handsome guy.

VERY cool that you got to meet Per, FINALLY!  It's funny how - in this day and age when we should be scared to death of meeting some wacko on the internet - true friendships are created here on Chordie, and almost no one is too wacky in real life!  Ha ha! 

BTW - I have a feeling Doug actually may have won the prize:  "Illustrious Leader" - Save up those beer chips Roger, someone's bound to take you up on it someday!

DINO:  From Norway, drinking Mexican beer - IN PORTUGAL - with a British chap!