4,951

(12 replies, posted in Acoustic)

Welcome to Chordie.  Give your wife a big smooch for getting you a guitar. 

Generally the chords in those charts aren't placed exactly right.  And sometimes they allow a lot of room for interpretation.  Given that you're a beginner, you are in the PERFECT situation to arrange difficult passages and use the excuse "Hey, I'm new at this!"  I use that a lot.  Although, people are starting to question me on that, and it's probably time for another cheap excuse.  Guitar playing is TERRIFIC for coming up with cheap and/or humorous excuses. 

You'll get into the hang of the chord placement.  Youtube is also a valuable resource.  Not only can you generally find videos of original artists doing the songs, but you can also find guys like Fretkiller (a bit of a legend on Chordie) who does terrific acoustic arrangements and his videos are closeups of his fretting hand showing you EXACTLY how he does it.  (Please note that this guy is terrificly talented and makes everything look easy.  It isn't.)  Once you get some basic chords down, I'd recommend going over to Goldhat.  Search on "Goldhat Lessons" and you'll find some good arrangements of Sissified Seventies Folk/Pop music, which is my favorite genre. 

There's a million good resources.  Probably www.justinguitar.com has the best beginner lesson and skill development plan of any free resource. 

Good luck.  Have fun.  Stick with it through the initial finger pain.  It IS worth it.  It usually takes about a year to get to where you can recognize something, and longer before people start wondering whether you brought your guitar with you when you go somewhere.  But stick with it, enjoy the journey, don't be too hard on yourself.  If you can follow that advice, you just found yourself a lifetime of challenge and fun.

- Zurf

4,952

(14 replies, posted in Chordie's Chat Corner)

Happy birthday.  You and Jimmy Buffett share the birthday.  You ought to get together for a birthday jamm.  I bet it would be a blast.

I didn't know you were a luthier.  Good for you.

- Zurf

My favorites change on a regular basis.  I've been on a Jim Croce, John Denver, and Willie Nelson kick lately.  I've been on a Johnny Cash kick for the past 30 years or so.  In no particular order (numbered only for my convenience of knowing how many I've named):

1. Rocky Mountain High
2. Whiskey River
3. Big Wheel
4. Cry, Cry, Cry
5. Get Rhythm
6. (I Fell In Love With a) Roller Derby Queen
7. Box #10
8. Me and Paul
9. Pick Up Your Oars and Row - Randy Travis
10. Sunshine - I can't remember the singer/songwriter, but you know the song, "Sunshine go away today.  I don't feel much like dancing.  Some man's gone, he's trying to run my life.  He don't know what he's asking."
11. Landslide - I'm just having fun learning to play it.
12. My Heroes Have Always Been Cowboys
13. And many more!!!

- Zurf

Try reading "The Five Love Languages."  It is written with a Christian perspective, but the love languages piece applies whether one (or a couple) is Christian or not.   There are five Love Languages, per this book anyway.  A love language is a way that someone both feels loved and expresses love for another.  One of the five is "gift-giving".  I'm betting that this love language describes your wife.  Some of the other ones are physical touch, acts of services, spending time, and there's one other that I can't remember. 

Mine are gifts and physical touch.  I'm a major hugger.

- Zurf

4,955

(6 replies, posted in Chordie's Chat Corner)

Good site.  Lot's of those old Country Gospel songs my Momma used to sing.

Mekidsmom.  I'm on facebook under my full name - Derek Zurfluh.  Look me up.  Invitation goes out to other Chordians who want to get in touch by that method.  Mostly it's just me, my wife, and a slew of fishing friends plus a smattering of church and high school folks.  Some music will liven things up. 

- Zurf

Back when I was in a big band we played quarterly at a facility that provided long term nursing care to the elderly.  I was about 17 years old at the time, and even now 27 years later I can "see" some of the images in my mind.  Two come to mind most clearly.  One was an elderly lady who was entirely crippled by a stroke except she could move her right hand just enough to control the joystick on an electric wheelchair.  She danced by wiggling her hand while she was sitting there in the chair.  The second one that comes to mind was a bed-ridden woman who had been wheeled down.  After the first couple songs, she called over a candy-striper and asked her to pull the blanket off her feet.  She didn't have the strength to move the blankets herself.  The next song we did she was tapping her feet together.  That's as close as she could get to dancing, but by God she was going to do it and those blankets were getting in the way. 

- Zurf

4,958

(11 replies, posted in Chordie's Chat Corner)

Besides, you don't need to insure a check.  A check can be cancelled just that easily.

- Zurf

I'd also recommend practicing the Bm in the meanwhile.  It's in all sorts of songs and will come in handy. 

- Zurf

Thanks Bushy. 

What I like about my neighborhood is that there was a floating group of "guys" who all pitched in with one another to shovel out whoever else was out, and those whom we know can't get out to shovel.  My 90+ year old neighbor came out to get his car and we all descended on him like a swarm.  Pretty soon there were three guys with shovels and one with a snowblower getting his car dug out while he sat inside in warmth and comfort.  Another neighbor is crippled with disease, so we dug out his ramp and his van so that he can get out if he needs to.  That's what I like about my neighborhood. 

- Zurf

Inspiring thread.

Go get 'em doc.  Sorry to hear about the crushed nerve.  According to the docs, the nerves in my hands and feet are misplaced, but they're the only nerves I've ever had.  So I may feel things differently from other people, but who really knows how other people feel anyway? 

Anyway, I'd think trying to play left handed would be something you may be able to do.  Alternate instruments are also possible.  I'm not sure if you feel the need to play guitar, or the need to express yourself musically.  Autoharp, mountain dulcimer, hammered dulcimer, fiddle, and cello would be all other ways to express yourself just within the stringed instrument family.  If you're willing to expand, there are many others. 

I hope it all works out for one way or another.  Keep your chins up. 

- Zurf

Panic and stupidity are the usual course of business here in the suburbs of the nation's capitol.  Nevertheless, snow is a four letter word.  I'll throw out my back and tear up my arthritic shoulders shoveling and then after I get my soaking wet clothes off and warm up with a cup of tea or hot chocolate, my family will wonder why I don't want to put my sopping wet clothes back on and play.

All right Linusguitar!  Good for you.  Thanks Guitarpix for the chance, and Merry Christmas to you.

- Zurf

We'll see.  I'm planning to take my kids to get Santa pictures today rather than tomorrow.  C'est la vie.   I can work tomorrow so long as there's power.  If there's not, I'm kind of out of luck.  Maybe I should get some wood in rather than booze, milk, eggs, or bread.  I hate being cold. 

- Zurf

4,965

(50 replies, posted in Acoustic)

geoaguiar wrote:

No cheating vocals. MKM has a great solution; the drunker you get the better you'll sound (at least to yourself). I think Zurf might recommend a single malt that would be just the medicine but I'm not a scotch drinker so I can't help you there.

1. I prefer to get the audience drunk.  That way, I can keep my mind sharp and continue to play while they get drunk and I begin to sound a whole lot better.

2. Macallan 18 year.  For a less expensive elixir, try Jefferson's small batch bourbon or Elijah Craig 18 year old bourbon. 

- Zurf

Slide my name in there please.  It's spelled Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf, Zurf.

If you have to put it on a whole lot of different slips in the hat, I'll understand. 

- Zurf

Fuggetaboutit.

Short answer: You did not waste your time. 

Long answer: I've got a buddy who has three solo albums out and has been playing guitar and writing songs for twenty years now.  His opinion on barre chords is that they're something the electric players use.  No B's and no F's in any of his songs.  Now, some other buddies of mine who are professionals in Nashville and who I had in my truck to take them fishing before they played a gig heard the other buddies album I was playing and THEY said (between laughing at the lyrics of songs like Pistol Don, an alcoholic gunslinger cowboy - "Drink all night, Pistol Don" or a song about Little Georgie a midget fortune teller who escapes from prison titled "Small Medium at Large"), "He's a pretty good picker.  If he were cleaned up in a studio with the same equipment the big boys use, he'd sound better than most of the guys playing on the circuit right now." 

So, if it's important for you to play with barre chords, and there's a very good argument that it ought to be, you should learn barre chords.  However, you can play songs, write songs, and be a "pretty good picker" in the minds of Nashville pros without ever learning them. 

- Zurf

4,968

(50 replies, posted in Acoustic)

geoaguiar wrote:

Learn F, B and Bminor bar shapes for starters. These shapes will serve you well up and down the fret board. I know they suck at first (as a matter of fact B still sucks) but don't underestimate how these shapes will open up a whole new way of playing guitar.

B is evil and I have been granted amnesty.  I hear your point, but choose to ignore it at my own risk. 

- Zurf

4,969

(10 replies, posted in Chordie's Chat Corner)

Well, we all have said that we would kick the poo out of something, but now your son has gone ahead and done it. 

- Zurf

4,970

(41 replies, posted in Chordie's Chat Corner)

Loved that one Chordmentor!

There's things I'd do and there's things I wouldn't do.  Roofing at crazy heights and coal mining under the ocean count as two of the latter.  Everyone's got his or her own window on the world. 

- Zurf

How's this for a good way to end the concert?  After hearing all those guys jam on guitars and doing so well, my 8 year old asked, "Daddy, can you teach me chords?" <heart melts>  "Sure honey, I'd be happy to." 

- Zurf

There's a place in the Outer Banks of North Carolina where they do an introduction to hang-gliding class on a humongous sand dune.  There's constant wind, and if you wipe out it's in deep, soft sand.  Tough to get hurt.  I wouldn't jump off a huge cliff on the first run.  Well, actually I would.  The first time I ever rapelled, it was on a 230ft cliff that required a kick off and a rapid descent into a cave about 2/3 down.  Kind of stupid, but I did have fun. 

Scuba diving scares the snot out of me.  Wouldn't do it.  Well, maybe I would...

4,974

(3 replies, posted in Acoustic)

Do a search on advice for how to figure out strum patterns, pour yourself a cold drink and settle down for an evening's read.  There's been some good discussions on this topic in the recent past.  You can do the search from the dark blue bar up above the ad and below the tabs for Artists, Songs, etc. 

In the meanwhile, you can feel good about yourself that just about everyone reading this column has needed help with strum patterns at one time or another.

Edit to add: Check out the strumming pattern videos that are a sticky at the top of this forum.  They aren't the songs you want, but you can apply what you learn to the songs you want to do. 

- Zurf

It was great.  One of my old neighbors who I used to sing with sometimes out on his stoop played, and another guy who used to give a buddy of mine lessons and whom I played bass with one time at my buddy's house was there.  The music was out-freaking-standing and the band looked like they were having a ball.  It was a real jam.  Some of them hadn't played together before, and the band leader couldn't remember the bassist's name and just called him "Thumbs."  But they played like they'd been doing it together for years.  What a blast.

It was done to raise money for charity, so I hope they're successful at that.

- Zurf