Topic: What would you do?
Last night I got kinda put on a spot. We played music with our regular group last night when one of my good froends came up to me and asked if he could use my 12 string guitar to play a song. Since this has never happened before I didn't know how to refuse so I said ok. Well he used the guitar, played his song and then bragged to everyone there on how easy it played and how good the sound was. Later on a fiddle played can in to join us who only shows up once in a blue moon. When it got to her time to sing a song she started looking for a guitar she could borrow and the guy who had just used mine stood up and said " use Dennis' guitar" as it sounds great. So, not knowing how to say no, I let her us my guitar. Now, I'm not one who borrow's other peoples stuff nor do I like "loaning" out my stuff to people I don't know really well. Then, as we continued playing around in our circle it came time for the fiddle player to get another turn - so here she came with the "can I use your guitar again". HOW DO YOU SAY NO AND KEEP THINGS CIVIL? what would you do in this situation?