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(19 replies, posted in Songwriting)

Deadeye soundcloud had moved your song down the list so Jet60 link came up showing your song as deleted. Here is a new link to it.
https://soundcloud.com/eadeye/nothing-l … e-throttle

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(10 replies, posted in My local band and me)

Neo you have done alot in your time thanks for sharing.

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(2 replies, posted in My local band and me)

Neo your an interesting character.

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(20 replies, posted in Chordie's Chat Corner)

Maybe if I was to do a gig given myu lack of talent, it would be a good safety precaution for me to wear a safety helmet and body armour to protect me from bad audience reactions

Sorry Jandle it is your forum and I can see that  I should not have have responded to you and other  people talking about their situations in the way I did. Please  accept my appologies. I will endevour to keep these thoughts of mine for the chat section.

Sorry Jandle if we can't respect our family members on this thread  as a way of honouring you and those who like you who  have  put a good commitment  to  our older generation what can we do. You have upsept me deeply.I was only honouring the good deeds of folk on here. I am very passionate about supporting older people in our families and when people mention they have that going on on their with own families I will respond.  You can not marginalize old people just because they are old they are our history and from them we learn our futiure.
No song is worth more than our perants.

Zurf I;like the  relaxed way you do songs and pacy guitar playing and your vocals work a treat on Mephis In The Meantime.

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(19 replies, posted in Songwriting)

Deadeye you have got a good voice I would love to hear more songs that you have written. I  have got a mate who writes lots of songs and every now and then he writes a good one but sadly he never puts them out there for others to hear.  I think you might have some original gems waiting to be put out on soundcloud. Songwriters sometimes let their lack of confidence hold back good songs that could be of interests to others..

Zurf  said I guess what I'm saying is that what some elder care agencies see as abuse and neglect, some elderly and their families see as independence and liberty. The world could do with a lot more patience and a lot less making decisions for others without knowing a darned thing about them.

Zurf you are absolutly right what you said there. I have a lot of elderly friends many over the age of eighty who belong to a group called Grey Power who battle bureaucrats and politicians  advocating for the independence and respect older people deserve.  Grey Power is an advocacy organisation promoting the welfare and well-being of all those citizens in the 50 plus age group.  They monitor what the government is doing and how that will affect their  members – meeting with influential people including politicians, to make their views known.
Grey Power is dedicated to the welfare, interests and concerns of the many people who are over 50 years and is a neutral but assertive voice of influence in the political arena with no party political affiliation.
I spend alot of time with my ninety seven year old mother the thing I hear often from her friends is they feel their family have no time for them. I was a   member of the RSA for many years the Return Services Association.  I would visit many who ended up in  hospital. I was  struck  by how many families couldnt find the time  to suport  their own family members and that shocked me. When some of these people died their families were quick to get to the lawyers and fight over the will. I went to funeral  a couple  of weeks back  for a friend of mine who was single and whose only brother and neice and nephew turned up at the service. I was approached to help with arranging the funeral as none of his family werent interested.  With a couple of his other friends a service was arranged  that we thought would be appropriate . His family  approached me after the service.   They told me they  hadn't seen the deceased for twenty nine years and only came to see if  any of his friends knew if he had left them  anything in a will. It hit home to me again  not all families spend time or care for each other and it is not always anyones fault.  It is just how some family circumstances turn out. Also I have seen the otherside  organisation putting the elderly where they don't want to be or their families want them to be without any consideration for the person's own wishes.. In other words getting involved when there is not the need. I got very sick last year and I am still recovering. If it wasn't for my friends and family I would have ended up having some of my independence and liberty  taken away from me. You are perfectly  right to think the way you do about these things with your experience in this area. of life. I hope there are many more who are having a good discussion about these things.

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(14 replies, posted in Chordie's Chat Corner)

Welcome 6thelements. I don't know much about backing vocalist.  I know that Glenn Cambell and Leon  Russell as part of the  Wreaking Crew played on many a hit track.
I think James Taylor might have done a bit of backing vocals for Carol King on some of her songs.

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(6 replies, posted in Chordie's Chat Corner)

Mojo whenever you post something it is always good and full of honesty.  Your  wisdom has shined through many a time.

Zurf that was  what I was trying to say more people should take time for their elderly instead of leaving it to agencies.   Jandal and Zurf I just wanted  to say I wish there were more people like you who look out for the elderly without some sort other agenda. Old people can end up been put where they shouldn't be and don't want to me.. I have seen elderly who have been ripped of because there was no family there to protect them.

Neo I love the way you do Captain Kennedy. ,

Jandal and Zurf I just want to say I wish there were more people like you who look out for the elderly. My family spend alot of time with my mother who is 97 but I can tell you around the world there are many elderly who are forgotten by their families.
Elder abuse is a global problem.  International studies report that 3% - 10% of older people experience abuse or neglect each year.  It happens to men and women of every religious, cultural, ethnic and income group. However, much abuse goes unreported.  It has been estimated that only 16% of all abuse incidents come to the attention of service agencies which can assist the older person to live safely.


What’s happening in New Zealand?
Each year, Age Concern’s Elder Abuse and Neglect Prevention (EANP) services receive more than 2000 referrals for older people who may be facing elder abuse or neglect.  That’s eight referrals every working day.  About three quarters of these situations are confirmed to involve elder abuse or neglect. 

Often the abuse experienced by an older person involves more than one type of abuse.  In cases seen by Age Concern’s Elder Abuse and Neglect Prevention Services over the last three years:
75% involved psychological abuse
over 50% involved financial abuse
15-20% involved physical abuse
10-15 % involved neglect
10-15% involved self-neglect
Abuse is also identified by other agencies including health providers, the Police, lawyers, other community support organisations, and other non-Age Concern Elder Abuse and Neglect Prevention services.


Age Concerns report that they are dealing with an increasing number of older people who have become the victims of scams.  Predators are deliberately targeting lonely older people who have assets, forming friendships with them through the internet or in person, then requesting money for various hypothetical emergencies.  In many cases, it is the family that contacts Age Concern for assistance.  But the older person is often prepared to incur their loss in exchange for the proffered friendship.
Almost half of abused older people are over the age of 80
One third of abused older people live alone
Three quarters of alleged abusers are family members; and we know this often continues even when the older person moves to residential care
Almost half of alleged abusers are adult children
Abusers are as likely to be female as male.

Neo that is very cool bit of your history thanks for sharing.

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(474 replies, posted in Bands and artists)

TF  great choice Muriel Anderson for this one hundreth post. I love her double-album, Nightlight Daylight,. I love the way that even though she is doing something very complicated it feels relaxed and flows. Watching her on youtube her smile and the almost very casual way she relates to the audience makes you feel part of what she is doing.. Brilliant thank you.

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(8 replies, posted in Poems)

Phill I say unto thee thank you for thy comment on my efforts as a scribe of verses.

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(24 replies, posted in Chordie's Chat Corner)

Phill when I lived in London outside some pubs you would get Barrow Boys selling Jellied eels. The dish consists of chopped eels boiled in a spiced stock that is allowed to cool and set, forming a jelly. It is eaten cold. The Barrow Boys would also sell cockles and mussels done in vinegar. They would sell their food to you in little plastic containers with little wooden picks to eat it with. Something that might amuse our American friends is our local Pub in London use  to serve Faggots.  That is  Faggots, gravy, mashed potatoes and peas. A faggot is traditionally made from pig's heart, liver and fatty belly meat or bacon minced together, with herbs added for flavouring and sometimes bread crumbs.

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(8 replies, posted in Poems)

Thank you Jandle for your feed back. I wasn't sure if this poem would make sense to any one.  For those who don't know who Sam Hunt is. Here he is doing one of his poems.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=briIZAVmhOY

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(24 replies, posted in Chordie's Chat Corner)

Thank you UJB .  I remember as a kid children schools here  taught us"Peter Piper" a English-language  tongue-twister. It is only now that I realise what  the pickle peppers are.in the ryhme.
Peter Piper picked a peck of pickled peppers.
A peck of pickled peppers Peter Piper picked.
If Peter Piper picked a peck of pickled peppers,
Where's the peck of pickled peppers Peter Piper picked?

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(19 replies, posted in Chordie's Chat Corner)

There are alot of gibbies collecting dust in music stores around here.

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(24 replies, posted in Chordie's Chat Corner)

Excuse my ignorance  is a pickle something like a gherkin or an onion preserved in brine.????   When I was kid I remember my Grandmother saying " Now now  don't get yourself in a pickle". I just thought it was her way of saying don't get confused. When I lived in the  UK some pubs sold pickled eggs are they pickles??? My mum use to  make jars of onions in brine which she called pickle onions.. Am I on the right track or is it something else ??? Congratulations TF you are  good person to have as a Moderator,

Neo I love that Banjo on Country Road.

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(8 replies, posted in Poems)

TF thank you  for your kind comments . I agree with you our Distinguished Musicologist TIG, and CTECH have written some amazing stuff recently,  Maybe later on in the year when I get together with my  guitarist Robert we might put this poem into a musical landscape like you sugested. For now I have just recorded me reciting it link atttached
https://soundcloud.com/eatleville/rippl … alm-waters

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(3 replies, posted in Songwriting)

TIG Good one you have put out a good song. There is a need for action to stop these shootings.. Good seeds need to be sown to stop any  apathy around peoples right to a safe enviroment..