upyerkilt wrote:

My thoughts exactly!! All parents in this case are partly to blame whether they believe they are or not. Parents are suppose to protect and if they didnt know exactly ho a person is or what their intentions are then they have part blame.

Sadly, I suspect that some of the parents had a very good idea of the person's intentions and let their children go anyway.  Whether for the brush with fame or a chance for getting a whack at his pocketbook, I don't know.  It is shameful, but it is nevertheless my supposition. 

- Zurf

Not on purpose!

- Zurf

Let me get this straight... Stuff comes with manuals that instruct how to operate it?  Who'd have thunk it?

- Zurf

Bluegrass bands often rely upon family harmonies.  Good stuff.

- Zurf

5,930

(29 replies, posted in Acoustic)

I think Fender has many rivals and is frequently excelled within a price point for acoustic guitars.  I am entirely unimpressed with their acoustic offerings.  No animals were harmed in the posting of this message.  Your mileage may vary.  Do not read this message if you are now or may become pregnant.  (I think that's enough disclaimers)

- Zurf

SouthPaw41L wrote:

ps---what if it was your child?

It it were my child, she (both my children are daughters) wouldn't be permitted to go into another person's house without parental supervision until such time as I had been there enough and knew the parents well enough to take a decision that the environment is a safe one.  My daughters don't get play dates with children until we know the parents - or we stay during the date and GET to know the parents and how they run their house.  That's what.

- Zurf

D-A-G.  Three chords and the truth, baby!

- Zurf

5,933

(7 replies, posted in Chordie's Chat Corner)

Well, NELA, sorry we couldn't get it worked out. 

I got home late this afternoon and went to my neighbor's birthday party.  All my girls are in bed (including my funny-little-honey) and I have finally gotten my hands on my guitar after a week's absence.  Ahhhhhhhhhhh.

I learned that one of my neighbors plays and plays well.  I told him I'm a self-taught hack, but he invited me to come jamm nevertheless.  It should be fun.  It's always fun to play with the truly talented and/or skilled who don't take themselves too seriously. 

- Zurf

5,934

(11 replies, posted in Acoustic)

Concentrate on skill not on speed.  Speed will come, but will only sound good if skill is also involved.  When you can get to the chords you need to well, THEN you start stringing them together. 

My recommendation, based on not much of anything at all and so can be thrown out like so much chaffe, is to [1] be sure you can get from one chord to the next cleanly, comfortably, and easily.  [2] Then start playing a song with the chords in order, but very, very slowly and only with downstrokes on the "on" beats.  If a waltz-time song, then on 1, 2, and 3, if a common time song on 1, 2, 3, 4.  [3] When you can comfortably and smoothly play chords in the right order on the downbeats of the song with a steady tempo, THEN you can start working in some flourish and more interesting patterns.  To achieve a steady tempo, nothing with ever be as useful to you as playing with a metronome.  It is an indispensable tool for learning steady tempo. 

Hope that helps. 

- Zurf

Only five persons hurt by out-of-control scale model cars?  Y'all need more powerful models and more reckless drivers.  Get that up to 12 and we'll talk. 

I am also curious how to pull a cracker and why one would want to do it at Christmas-time.

- Zurf

5,936

(11 replies, posted in Chordie's Chat Corner)

Wow, that's a wicked fever for an adult.  Hope they find what's ailing you Doc.  Be a good patient now.  Doctors make the worst patients I've heard. 

- Zurf

Michael does not equal Janet.  Janet is much more masculine.

Those kids were messed up by "stage parents" to the extreme.  It is unfortunate.  I am no psychologist, but I can agree with that person above who says that Michael Jackson is still a child in his mind and spirit.  All his money can't take away that damage.  That he has a lot of money and is a target for sharks is that much more unfortunate. 

- Zurf

5,938

(7 replies, posted in Chordie's Chat Corner)

NELA - Message sent.  Sorry I didn't get your e-mail because I've been gone.  Sent you my cell phone number and Windows Live Messenger account.  Let's get a brew after work. 

Doug_Smith - I don't know what kind of work is here.  This is my first trip.  Too much personal stuff to get into to describe what I'm doing here online, but it's not the kind of work that one can just pick up when they come to a town.  Seems like a nice place, though.  Been riding around on the public transportation and meeting a lot of locals.  They seem like cool and friendly people. 

- Zurf

Don't but have.  I have been in two orchestras, a stage band, a Dixieland band, and a praise band.  Only the praise band is relatively recent. 

I am stuck in rehearsal phase.  Even when in a band, it's months of rehearsal for an hour of stage time. 

The thing that is essential to playing in public is permission.  One should not just show up to play unless invited.  Otherwise, it's just like practice except with a bunch of people listening.

Not dreaming of it. 

You  need confidence in yourself and your band mates.  That's what practice is for.  If you are shy, that's your deal.  A lot of musicians are nervous until they start playing.

I play at home. 

If you get the opportunity to play with others Doc, I highly recommend it.  It requires a level of cooperation and understanding of common needs that will rocket your playing skills upwards.

- Zurf

5,940

(7 replies, posted in Chordie's Chat Corner)

Are there any Chordians in San Diego?  I'm heading out there for work and wouldn't mind meeting up somewhere.  I won't have my guitar along.  Trying to travel without checking luggage and a guitar would mess that up.

- Zurf

SouthPaw41L wrote:

Bass players with the Jan Brady syndrome. "....

Uh-oh.  I suppose you prefer Ginger, too. 

Well, I was playing trumpet back when the Brady Bunch was on, so I guess I wasn't a bass player then. 

Something that I hate is getting some little tiny thing stuck in your sock.  No matter how hard you try, you can't find what keeps poking you in the foot when you walk.  You can't find it, but it's still there poking you with every step.  Grrrrr.  I hate that. 

And Canadian nickles that I can't use in a vending machine in the US.  I'm sure in Canada they're right handy, but in the US the Canadian nickles aren't helpful.  Always seems to be nickles.  Never dimes or quarters.  I think maybe the Canadians have something against Jefferson.  How about one of the Canadians fessing up and letting me in on the secret.  Why do you sneak your nickles into my pocket? 

OH! And ornery squirrels.  I think they're planning a takeover.  They make me nervous. 

- Zurf

I apparantly understand trigger finger to mean something other than how you were using it.  What was the problem?  I hope you recover soon and are playing full speed ahead.

- Zurf

5,943

(8 replies, posted in Acoustic)

Ditto Roger Guppy.  That is exactly what I do.  My songs never sound like the original, but they sound like a song. 

I am now trying to learn Kenny Chesney's "Don't Blink" using Mr. Chesney's rhythms and it is downright difficult, so you have my sympathy.  I can play the song easily using my own feel and rhythm, but I am trying to learn it more as a cover than as a re-interpretation.  I understand your frustration. 

Fortunately, there is no law that says when we play a song, we have to play it exactly like the original.  In fact, few of us ever can because the original artist usually has a whole band playing along while we have only ourselves.   We *must* interpret, and armed with that knowledge, we can graciously give ourselves a break from the pressure of perfection. 

That said, you can make DDUUD work on just about any song. 

- Zurf

5,944

(4 replies, posted in Chordie's Chat Corner)

Doc,

Churches are important in many communities but not all.  Remember that there is one God (my viewpoint) but he established ZERO religions.  All religions are man-made sets of rules for behavior and worship.  God is all about one-on-one relationship.  That is not meant to run down religion, because I think communal worship is important, and I think many people can almost always do more good than one.  Religion has its place, but it is not a substitute for God or a substitute for a relationship with God. 

There is no obligation to attend church in America.  If you took that impression, either you misunderstood or the person misinformed you.  In some small towns, it would be difficult for you to make many contacts without attending a church.  There is a strong and real component of community wrapped up in churches in many smaller towns.  However, there is no obligation or requirement.  In fact, we have laws here that PREVENT employers from considering religion when hiring, promoting, demoting, or taking any other official employment action. 

About music: attendance at churches here are waning too.  Some churches found that a lot of people couldn't relate to the 18th and 19th century hymns that were being sung.  So, for a variety of reasons but mostly so that people could use the singing portion of the service for meaningful worship time and also so that people attending could relate to the music better, some churches began using "contemporary" music rather than the old Wesleyan style hymns.  Many churches mix it up, doing some of each.  Some worship and praise bands have started doing modernized "rock" versions of the old hymns.  They have so much meat in the lyrics that they're hard to ignore, but the style can be offputting to some.  There's a lot of different ways that music is handled. 

When I was playing in a worship & praise band, it didn't matter how we wanted to sound, everything came out as bluesy folk/pop.  We played hymns, contemporary Christian, Christian rock, and even regular music you'd hear on the radio that has a spiritual component if it fit into the theme of the sermon.  But it all sounded like bluesy folk/pop because of the odd mix of people playing.  I have a blues background on bass.  The lead guitarist is a metal-head.  The worship leader/rhythm guitarist was a folk singer, and the drummer was self-taught listening to Christian rock.  So we had blues, rock, folk, metal all represented in the band.  Blend it together and you get blues folk/pop. 

Hope that answers some questions.  If it doesn't, next time you're in the states if you are in my neck of the woods (northern Virginia), I'll be happy to take you to church with me and introduce you to the band and our worship leader.

- Zurf

5,945

(22 replies, posted in Chordie's Chat Corner)

dino48 wrote:

Wow some of these are pretty radical,guess that is why we love music and playing guitar. Penicillen zurf? ,what are you planning on doing?              dino

Living.

5,946

(20 replies, posted in Chordie's Chat Corner)

Switching to Elixir lights nanoweb soon.  I had a set given to me and they were very nice.  When I next purchased, I went back to my less expensive (initially) favorite D'Addorio Silk and Steel, but they have worn out so quickly that I will return to the Elixir Light Nanowebs because while more expensive initially their longer life makes them less expensive in the long run.

- Zurf

5,947

(22 replies, posted in Chordie's Chat Corner)

Pepperoni pizza; Penicillin; James Taylor Live. 

- Zurf

5,948

(4 replies, posted in Song requests)

Thanks guys.  I found it on Ultimate Guitar too and was just coming in to edit.   

Great song.  Just bought the CD tonight.  Yeah, I'm a little behind the times...

- Zurf

5,949

(4 replies, posted in Song requests)

I like that song.  Obviously, else I wouldn't be asking for it.  Any help is appreciated.  Some day I will figure out how to "hear" a key.  Just not today.

- Zurf

5,950

(6 replies, posted in Chordie's Chat Corner)

Look up "Jerry's Breakdown" on You-Tube.  Chet Atkins, the man repeatedly named the best acoustic guitarist of the year by Guitar and Acoustic Guitar magazines, is watching Jerry Reed's fingers trying to pick up some tips.  It's cool to see that the pros do this as much as we campfire pickers. 

He'll be missed.  From all reports I've read or heard, he was the genuine article and none of that persona you saw in front of the camera was a put on.

- Zurf