As to that 'don't know what I did before' comment - me neither. I was a musician as a kid. But as a kid, it was easy to find other people to play with. Schedules were pretty free compared to being an adult. Friend's schedules were also free. As I grew, space, finances, time all conspired against me and I left music for decades. I tried here and there, but it didn't work out. My wife made some teasing comments that she probably thought were just teasing but which hurt enough to interfere with my playing. (dealt with, any advice on the matter will be promptly ignored)
So I finally got to playing bass in a worship group a few years ago, but I had to leave that church for reasons I'd rather not discuss (nothing nepharious, it was a painful decision and I don't feel like going into it). And I was once again adrift musically. I played bass, and while it's fun to play with CD's it's just not the same as making music. That's just practice. In my mind anyway. So, I took up guitar thinking that maybe it would improve on my theory and bass playing, and I could make music all on my own.
HOLY MOLEY!!! This is GREAT!!! I don't need anyone else to play, but it's real easy to play with someone else too. I don't know why I let all the baggage get in the way before. So now, I guess I know exactly what I did before - which is stress and moan and whine - but playing guitar to satisfy that creative urge is just SOOOOOO much better.
A buddy of mine who's been a jammer/gigger for years and years and years has taken me under his wing and is helping. We don't get together often, but his encouragement has been immeasurable. And then some other fellows (two of which are honest-to-goodness Nashville cats) took to encouraging me when they learned I was giving it a go. So this time, rather than teasing all I've gotten is encouragement and help. So cool. Then I get involved here on Chordie, and folks are so supportive. It's all good. My bass hasn't been off the wall in months (though I did learn that my guitar playing HAS improved my bass playing).
- Zurf